I want to be pushed aside...

Hubby is sick. Many doctor visits in the works. I'm optimistic though. Because that's what I do, right?

It is looking less and less likely that I will be seeing my Dad for Christmas. Dammit. Next year I'm asking for Christmas off in July.

(Not fishing for sympathy or looking to drown in "It'll be okay" comments either. If you must support, support silently.)